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Thursday 20 February 2014

Dear Men Please Let's grow up and act like real Men!!!

Suffocate Mkenya 
I want to point out some of the most annoying behaviors most men exhibit on social networks as a way of enlightening them and discouraging those that would read this to at least grow up and learn good human ethics to avoid humiliation and general belittling of the entire male population.
First, women need men as much as men need women! In fact, women need men more than men need them even though they won’t admit it cos most guys have made it look like it is only men that need women, that’s with the rate at which some idle guys chase girls around on the internet.

1. Commenting and liking every female posts, wall status and picture updates:

Please! don’t u guys have jobs or books to read? Must u guys like or comment on every post or picture updated by a girl on her facebook wall? Why are u guys helping to boost these girls’ egos and making some unworthy girls feel like local celebrities they aren’t?


Please dear men, avoid this attitude…learn to ignore some things, be a man for once, be in charge!…liking and commenting on every girl’s status or pictures will never make her to fall for u or date u, go and upgrade yourself off-line and stop looking for free sex online cos if u continue jumping online looking for free love or sex, u will grow to hate your personality in future to come!
And do u know that the guys controlling these girls hardly like or comment on these girls’ posts or picture updates? Be wise guys and stop wasting your time and falling your hands.

2. Trying to chat with every girl with pretty picture online:

In case u don’t know, know it now that so many bad and negatively smart guys online have created female accounts on: facebook, twitter, instagram, BBM, etc just to be scamming naïve and freaky guys online.
Stop falling for girls online…control your emotions for a minute! Not all female accounts with pretty female pictures are truly females.
And who told u that, that pretty girl u saw online doesn’t have a guy off-line or guys chasing after her in real life?

3. Calling a girl they don’t know and just met online: baby, honey, darling, sexy girl, etc:

Why are u guys abusing those precious names for Christ’s sake? What made her your baby, honey, etc?
Stop boosting their ego cos u are the ones making their heads to swell and u guys will still be the ones to complain that they are ignoring u or feeling big for u, come on guys grow up pls!

4. Sending a girl u met online recharge card/M-Pesa's Etc:
Believe me, its mostly broke guys that fall in this category cos no girl will dare ask a loaded guy to send her recharge card, for what? Who is she? Who gave her the gut? Who is her mother?? And for you guys exclusive info, girls don’t usually ask financially buoyant guys for money!

Financially buoyant guys don’t spend much on girls they don't know. So guys wisen up first! Go and upgrade yourself financially and u won’t need to beg any girl online or off-line for friendship and neither would u spend to have her. Unfortunately, broke guys suffer a lot in the hands of girls and its cos they refused to grow up and learn!
Use your money to equip yourself.
Use your money to buy better clothes, dress well and eat well.
Use your money to upgrade your certificate, search for a better job, start a business, invest in yourself, invest in your talent and pray to God to bless and favour u and girls of all ages and class will be running after u with love even without u spending a shilling!!

5. Sending a girl more than 5 messages at the same time without waiting for her to reply your first message:

Why should a guy in his right thinking faculty send a girl: hi, hello, how was your day, hope u are doing fine, just checking on u, this one u aren’t replying, talk to u later, etc and u don’t expect the girl to see u as a nuisance?

U have already told the girl that u are so idle, jobless, needy and unwise and these are the qualities girls hate most in a guy. If girls notice that u are needy, forget it! If girls notice that u are idle or jobless, then they will do their best to ignore u. So stop bombarding their inbox with messages and wait for a reply or quit!

6. Begging girls for sex online:
How can you be begging a girl u don’t even know for sex? Are u really okay? Anyway, I am sure this is simply as a result of mass unemployment of guys in Kenya cos no busy guy will go online to beg random girls for sex when he can afford sex in real life any time he so wants.

Please guys grow up and stop dis gracing the entire male folks please and please, its really disheartening and disturbing.
This is 2014, u guys should better grow up and do things that better your lives financially, academically and otherwise.

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